…..The week that followed was a little stressful in the house. Me and my husband did a little research on the internet about QNET and the stuff that came up was horrific and honestly most of it was a little misleading. When my friend came too see us the next week, we were sure that we would politely decline her offer. It didn’t seem right to become a part of something that seemed so messed up.
She got her friend with her and we got to talking. She explained us about how just by purchasing a single product, however small, i can become a part of QNET. We asked her about our doubts and the things we saw on the Internet. She explained the entire thing to us and we were very much convinced and also a little shocked to know about the levels that people can fall to for petty things.
Start of a new JOURNEY
So we became a part of QNET, but it doesn’t just end there; the real struggle actually began now.
So as i told you we had invested all our savings in my husband’s business, which wasn’t doing so well and we had almost lost all of it, we were living in rags. Our Society tends to act hypocritical when someone faces such a situation, and we were no different. All our friends told us that they would do anything possible in their might to help and support us in this difficult time but were no where to be found. Me and my husband had a very good and big social circle. We were always a happy-go-lucky and out going couple. When we were faced with an adversity we realized that not everyone who says he is a friend; is actually a friend.
When I started my actual Journey with QNET, I had to go through a very very tough time. I was going through a complicated pregnancy, financially we had been hit really bad, my husband’s start-up wasn’t doing all so good and we had no idea how to build a network. We reached out to our old friends but it wasn’t that helpful. Half of the lot didn’t even agree to see me, many a times i was asked to leave by my friends. They thought that I had become so desperate for money that I had joined some Cult and was going to force them to be a part of it. I have no idea what brought on that thinking but that happened and it was really heartbreaking.
I had given up all hopes.
FINDING SIMILARITIES
I went to my folks as my due date was nearing. I come from Indore, Madhya Pradesh. I stayed there a few months and noticed a lot of housewives and people with a lot of potential all going to vain. So rather than approaching my high end, fancy, uptown “Friends”, I approached these people with normal lives who had seen struggle. I spoke to them, connected with them and I had no hopes but a lot of them agreed to join force with me. We all started slow; now we are marching towards success gradually. It hasn’t been easy. We had to face a lot to reach where we are.
Networking is not a very simple thing to do, and we are all regular people with normal lives. We work honestly to earn a living and support our families. However fancy it looks from the outside, being an IR requires an equal amount of work as any other job, maybe even more so. I just want to say to those people threatening diligent workers like us to stop working. You have no right to ask someone to stop earning their living. Harming or bullying someone who works hard to make a living is highly immoral and unethical. WORK IS WORK.
